My Top Pet Peeves - I hate liars!

YAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I get to use the blog format as it was intended for us to talk about our journey, vent vent vent vent, and keep a journal for in my case sanity.And I’m very well known to use this format to get out the negativity, to vent about stuff that bothers me and talk extensively about my exercise, my food issues and whatever the hell I want.  What is bothering Nancy these days?  Something called

ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THEN WORDS!!!!!!!  OH YES BABY!  Ever had a man who talk the talk but when it comes to action there is none?  Ever had a girlfriend who fabricate lies about her life?  Ever had people in your life who lies and lies and lies?

I will ADMIT to being a very poor liar. I always get caught.  My momma was smarter then me.  I rarely get away with much - unless she allowed it to slip thru.  Rod - oh my God - I lie, he can see it, hear it.  So I try hard to tell the truth because in the end, the truth DOESN’T CHANGE!! IT NEVER EVER EVER DOES! Lying never got me too far in life.  IN FACT, it always got me in a lot of trouble!!!

I posed a question for my cats.  What are your pet peeves? Mine  - are below!

#1 Two-faced fake a$$ people! I don’t like people who plays with other people. Period. If you can’t be real with me, then don’t be my friend!!! Don’t kiss my a$$ then turn around and talk UNKINDLY about me. I respect those who are real!!! IF you don’t like me….then don’t like me. IF I sense you are fake, I’m going to watch your actions and protect my self interest. Heck, you don’t care about mines! Don’t TALK, CHAT with me, take up MY TIME then turn the corner or sign off from here and sign on somewhere else and talk smack about me! I find out! I’m done with you!

#2 People who straddles the fence - get your OWN opinion, speak your mind and don’t say or do what I say just to please me!

#3 Accountability - know when you are wrong! It’s the only way to grow!

#4 Fake fake fake fake fake fake PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I had to make sure it’s in there!

#5 Snitches!!!! Self explanatory. Enough said

#6 People with a better then thou attitude. PALEASEEE your shi* still stinks just like mine. Make sure you take a whiff in the toilet - trust me - it ain’t perfume!

I ONLY ASK OF ONE THING OF MY FRIENDS ON THIS SITE: PLEASE BE REAL WITH ME AND I’LL BE SINCERE WITH YOU.  IF YOU DON’T LIKE ME, STAY AWAY.  THAT’S IT.  SIMPLE, EASY!!!

I will hopefully have exciting news tomorrow.  I don’t want to burst my own bubble yet.  My baby goes to court and maybe…………………………clap my clap my hands.  Awaiting some great news.  :)   Yesterday I got back to weights, push-ups and Zumba.  Today is Pilates and yoga.  :)

Anyone would like to add to the Pet Peeve List?

31 Comments so far

  1. khmerbeauty @ August 24th, 2010

    What is up with the blog postings? Is that what I get for not posting for a week? The delay is crazy!

  2. Dagny @ August 24th, 2010

    Your blog I can see on the home page now…
    I might ask him this tonight for fun. It kind of might show his personal philosophy?
    I don’t like liars or haters either. I don’t like people who try to be who they aren’t. I want someone to like/love/even just befriend me for me and not some other thing.
    This is why I am so bothered with body image and what is posted in magazines that is photoshopped. Part of my brain says they are not real but the other expects me to look like that…and says I am not normal.
    I want someone to like me for who I am and not what I wear. I think I said this before…but alot of heavy make-up ect I don’t wear. Just sunscreen, eyeshadow and chat stip and maybe lip gloss. Perfume is ok…but if the guy hates what I look like in the morning without make-up…that is NOT going to last! lol

  3. KDawson @ August 24th, 2010

    Two-faced people and liars and definitely at the top of my list. I don’t care if you don’t like me, but don’t pretend to be my friend, then talk shit behind my back.

  4. astrongnewme @ August 24th, 2010

    Liars and cowards tend to be one and the same, but they are top on my list of things I can’t stand. I deal with it too much in my personal life to have any patience left for it.

    Number one on my list…lying to children who trust you. My stepkids deserve better than that.

    High on my list are women who play the helpless act. It holds all women back when some idiot bimbo won’t stand on her own two feet and take care of herself.

  5. coolbird30 @ August 24th, 2010

    I agree!! Liars have no place here. No one needs to live their life by telling lie after lie after lie. And yes, having your own opinion is highly favorable. I also don’t like people with no back bone. Say the truth don’t just say a lie so your friends will like you. Yeah on the potential good stuf going on!! Can’t wait for it to be official!!!!!!!

  6. sabrinaBB @ August 24th, 2010

    Hmmm…pet peeves… I think I have to many ;)

    I think LYING is number one. I can’t stand when people think I am an idiot and can’t figure it out. Drives me insane. I understand there might be some circumstances where somebody “has to” lie (you know those little white lies, where you would ruin the surprise if you would be honest type of lies)If you lie to me you better hope I never find out as it won’t be pretty if I do ;)

    Another one, just like yours is being FAKE …. I rather have you tell to my face you can’t stand me then pretend you like me and talk behind my back. I live by the rule, You don’t have to love me but you have to respect me. Respect me enough to be honest. I don’t care if you hate me, just be clear about it.

    And maybe DON’T WASTE MY TIME …. before my dad passed a lot of times I’ll find myself helping family members, spending time I don’t really have trying to help them, get information etc (after being ask to do it I might add) just to find out at the end they don’t do anything with the information provided or don’t change anything themselves…. now after my dad passed I realized I can’t spend my life wasting time. Never know when my times comes and I don’t won’t to have wasted precious time. Also don’t want to spend time being mad at people for wasting my time anymore…

    If I keep thinking I am sure I can find many more things, but I think these are my main pet peeves.

    Not to much to ask to just be real, and respect each other even if we don’t always agree or like each other.

  7. Lori @ August 24th, 2010

    I can’t wait for tomorrow Nancy!
    We are here waiting with you and can’t wait to celebrate!!!!!

    I agree, I HATE lying and phoniness.
    I mean we all say little white lies usually to keep from hurting someone’s feelings.
    But people that lie ALL the time I detest.

  8. AuntTeeTee @ August 24th, 2010

    My biggest pet peeve is definitely lying. Please by all means tell me the truth even if it hurts me. I can get over hurt feelings,but I cannot abide by someone lying to me. It is such an ugly & offensive thing to do.

  9. AuntTeeTee @ August 24th, 2010

    My biggest pet peeve is definitely lying. Please by all means tell me the truth even if it hurts me. I can get over hurt feelings,but I cannot abide by someone lying to me. It is such an ugly & offensive thing to do.

  10. AuntTeeTee @ August 24th, 2010

    My biggest pet peeve is definitely lying. Please by all means tell me the truth even if it hurts me. I can get over hurt feelings,but I cannot abide by someone lying to me. It is such an ugly & offensive thing to do.

  11. spunky @ August 24th, 2010

    WTF is up with the passwords? I swear I miss out on too much on BS!!!!!!!! :(((((

  12. khmerbeauty @ August 24th, 2010

    Maya I’ll email you the password k.

  13. FRIEND @ August 24th, 2010

    I agree with the other comments about lying being at the top of my list. My list include respect too.

  14. somemansdream @ August 24th, 2010

    My sister is like that, if she’s talking, then she’s lying. To make things worse, she’s a drama queen and out to save the world cause she so great. Well, you saw what happened there–she is out of my life.
    Poisonious people have no place here or in our real lives.
    I guess besides the lying and stuff–its people that are out to destroy for the pure fun out of. My other sister & her hubby deliberately set out to set our son against me & hubby and yet, we were the ones they ran to if they needed help–all the while smiling and telling us thank you. This kind of deceitfulness is beyond my understanding thought I know its out there. I just dont think that way.
    Sorry, rambling on your blog lol.
    Yes, we are all waiting for those magic words tomarrow!!

  15. Angela1126 @ August 24th, 2010

    Mine is most definatly liars. ESPECIALLY when i just SAW what i saw right in front of my face, how can someone even THINK to lie?!?! That and backstabbing beotches!!
    So glad you are back to blogging Nancy!
    Hope evrything turns out great tomorrow hun!!!

  16. khmerbeauty @ August 24th, 2010

    MJ, lying to kids is a no no! I agree!

  17. jennifer0414 @ August 24th, 2010

    Great blog Nancy!!!!!!

    I agree with it all… LOL

    Even if you like miricle whip… LOL NO NAMES.. I will love you. At least you have your own opinion.
    HAHA

  18. khmerbeauty @ August 24th, 2010

    ROFLMAO!! NOOOOOOOOOO I’m not the one that likes Miracle WHIP CHICA!!! That’s LORI!

    I’m a BEST FOOD MAYO Girl hon! :)

  19. joy @ August 24th, 2010

    I am a “tell it like it is” kind of person. Probably a bit too honest at times. I have zero tolerance for lying. A liar will do other bad things too and then lie about it. My daughter cannot put up with my grandson doing something and saying somebody else did it. He’s not even 4 yet and she gets irate if he lies and he goes to the corner and then he comes out when he tells the truth. She’s worse than me about lying. She really hates it. I have told my kids everything I have done in my past, so when I die they won’t have some big revelation. Nancy, you hit on a great topic and I hope you get great news tomorrow.

  20. khmerbeauty @ August 24th, 2010

    Heather - I find that men prefers natural beauty in the first place. That is why I do have some make-up, but not like the arsenal of everything under the sun. I only put on some moisturizer, lip gloss if nay, eyeshadow and eyeliner. I don’t wear foundation anymore unless I go out. :)

  21. VisiblyNvisible @ August 24th, 2010

    My grandmother had 3 sayings that I still hold onto today
    1)Always tell me the truth, no matter how bad it is, that way I know what I’m dealing with
    2) If I don’t care for someones company or conversation, why would I sit with them and listen to any lies they have to say
    3)If you listen to someone while they speak evil of someone else, what are they gonna say about you to the next person?
    She was real-raw and gritty when it came to ’smiling liars, and hell bound pretenders’ she would usually stop them after a few words and say, ‘Thank you for stopping by, now go take your isht someplace else!’

  22. Stevie1824 @ August 24th, 2010

    I think u covered all aspects when it comes to pet peeves haha. I agree a lot w/ ur blog. Actually, me & my friend were talking last night about this. We were talking about a girl we knew & tried to be friends w/ but she was just a mean, rude girl. We told ourselves that there are ppl who give joy to ur life & others who take it away. We put that “old” friend in the “take joy away” file & the closed the drawer.

    I will say a pray for u & Rod in hopes of him coming home!!! I really really really hope I see tears of joy in ur blog & NOT tears of sadness. *BIG HUG* Keep me posted :)

  23. jen262 @ August 24th, 2010

    I’m not a good liar and I’m glad for that, I really hate when I’m lied too i feel so betrayed.Hope you are doing well thanks for posting on my blog :)

  24. tiffanyp @ August 24th, 2010

    I agree! And I hope you get wonderful news tomrrow. My fingers are crosed and I am thinking about you!

  25. kanani16 @ August 24th, 2010

    Good to have you back Nancy! Well, no one likes a liar except maybe another liar. My big pet peeve lately is people who don’t say what they mean….they just say what they think I want to hear. It drives me friggen nuts! If I ask someone if they want to go do something (and I have the feeling they probably don’t) - and they act all enthused and then either resent going or beg off at the last minute because they never really wanted to go - it pisses me off. I don’t seem to have a problem telling someone “NO”. The two faced thing is another.

    I hope all goes well tomorrow for you and your fella Nancy - may your wishes all come true. Looking forward to hearing…..

  26. Venus103 @ August 25th, 2010

    Well I can honestly say I hope never to piss you off! I don’t like liars either. I hope you get great news tomorrow!

  27. lesserjanice @ August 25th, 2010

    Liars have to be the biggest on my hit list. I have no time for it and don`t want it in my life. Oh and a close second is people who always talk about themselves all the time without showing ANY kind of interest in others.

    Keeping my fingers crossed for you and Rod :)

  28. sandy1969 @ August 25th, 2010

    Rudeness and disrespect are 2 that come to mind quickly. I guess lying is part of disrespect but..

    You can hate me for all I care and I can hate you but if Im in your house I’ll obey your rules and I would never do anything or say anything to you in front of your family, especially your kids. That goes 2 ways. Hate me if you want but I can ignore you if you have to be around me, I dont have to get all up in your face just because I can. SELF CONTROL!

    Cursing in public, especially the F bomb where little kids can hear it is a HUGE turn off for me. It’s skanky…sorry but it is.

    People that will ignore me in stores like they cant see me and will stand in front of me when I move out of their way so they can pass. RUDE!

  29. renee68 @ August 25th, 2010

    I agree with you Nancy!! Liars….cant stand that..and cant stand two faced people!!!!! GRRR!!!

    Hope you have a great day!!! :)

    Love and Hugs!

  30. Leida @ August 25th, 2010

    Just saw your last blog. Hells, they are putting you through hells. I am hoping so much for a happy ending.

    I don’t think I have specific pet peeves, but I do get irritated by stuff and upset, just like everyone else living with the fellow humans.

    I will check back — good news, hope for good news!

  31. polegara @ August 27th, 2010

    Hypocrites. That’s all I can really say. I don’t like lying in any form, but when you preach one thing and do something completely different, it just makes me angry. Example: My sister in law won’t allow her kids to eat candy, sweets, or have pop. That’s fine, if she held herself to the same standard. The other day, one of the kids apologized to her for taking a drink of her Coke. They thought it was tea, but they spit it out really fast so that momma wouldn’t be mad. That’s just messed up. She’s just a three year old.

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