Why skinny men loves big, “thick”, BBW’s - my theory; Blogging
Need I say more about the pictures above???? Well, I hope it shows up because my work computer sucks!
I’ve come up with a theory why I’m not losing weight and it’s not my fault!!! LOL!!!!!!! Just hang out and listen. I have a sabotager named Rodney!! See, he can’t gain weight if he wants to. Instead he loses weight rather easily. Last couple of weeks 10 lbs because we were broke. So like every night, at midnite he wants to EAT A FREAKIN’ DELUXE ICE CREAM!! See the pic - proof you all - proof!
Well, since he can’t gain weight he wants to “pretend” he owns some fat…..so who’s closest to him?? Me!! If I don’t lose my weight then he can wrap his fingers around mines and pretend it’s his if only for a few minutes!
Far fetch but true! LOL
Seriously, men love thick women and fat on us because it’s as old as momma earth. It’s a sign of fertilty except with me there is no fertility in site! teee heeee heee!
I will consider myself lucky that he is holding on to my fat longer then I want to.
OH JASON, a men folk - buddyslimmer wrote a great blog today!!!! FUNNY as he**!
See, he was wondering if he’s THAT guy that roams the halls of the blog and creeps us womenfolk out.
Well, one we need more men on here - starting to wonder why it’s just us with weight issues right?
This is my take on it: IF I decide to open a blog, it’s because I’m going to read it. And if I read it the writer will see my image on their page as a reader. Out of complete respect for that blog and if it’s open for comments, I WILL ALWAYS COMMENT! It’s my way of showing respect for the time you put in to write down your thoughts. SO thank you for sharing a moment of your life with me. 
I don’t ever just go by a blog just to read and leave. For me as a writer, I appreciate it when fellow friends read and comment. It does make me wonder why some people come by to read and say nothing. I understand we all have busy lives, but it’s nice when we are acknowledged by our peers.
From me as a reader, if I read your blog I will always comment. Even if it’s just to say GOOD JOB! And I’m just don’t have time to read and respond to emails or booster notes. I keep updated on all my friends via blogs. SO TO ALL BLOGGERS - THANK YOU FOR BLOGGIN ON BUDDYSLIM AND SHARING YOU WITH ME!!!
Is it me or did the pictures not show up???? I hate my work computer!!!!
I read Jason’s blog this morning and thought it was really good! And those picks of Rod eating the icecream…. making me reeeeeeeeally hungry right now!
You can see them then??? YAY thanks babe!
You make sense Nancy. I Have been someone who reads and not always comment. BUT I will for now on.
Have a GREAT DAY
You make sense Nancy. I Have been someone who reads and not always comment. BUT I will for now on.
Have a GREAT DAY
Too funny. My husband is the same, basically. He loves curvy women, not really overweight women but he sure does love a little meat on the bones. He’s okay with me losing just as long as I don’t get “skinny”…lol
But I agree with him to a certain point. We should still look like women with a little booty, hips, thighs, and boobie…lol just not too much of it. At least that is my view on it.
LOL. I thought the pictures were of him eating a salad. Ice cream salad, I guess.
My husband has never said anything to me either way but me being thinner means I am happy thus he is happier so…
MAN I LOVE ICE CREAM!
I’m not gonna look anymore cuz that ice cream is killing me!!! lol
Good insight. My EX was very sparse up top, so his big thing with me? He wanted me to have long hair - if I’d so much as get it trimmed he’d sulk for days - vicarious hair, vicarious fat. I love it.
I see the pics, Nancy. Ur on fire today mamacita ! Guess what I saw when driving to work today? I car whose license plates were WILDFIRE ! ! ! BAHAHAHAHAH !
oh you are just way cruel. I also thought Rod was eating a Salad and then you say it is ice cream. You cruel cruel buddy …
And you know me and my skinny goat man.. so I so believe that theroy. No wonder Tony always grabs my stomach…and puts his hands there. I read the blog to Tony and he was laughing so hard … I guess the secret is out and you unvailed it..
About the blog. I so get that. I always comment for the same reasons. Out of respect and then wonder who do so many people read and not say a word. Sort of creepy really. You open yourself up ( okay my fault for doing so) but peole just read. Makes me wonder.. But to each their own.
keep on blogging I love reading your theories and insights… LOVE it…
hey thanks for the message i will respond later..
Oh, man. Are you sure he and Rob are not long lost brothers?
I had a conversation with my husband shortly after starting up on Buddyslim…he asked if there were any men on here and at that time I hadn’t seen any… so I laughed and said if there were I’d just wonder if they were “chubby chasers”… I’m sure men have just as many hang ups with their weight or appearance as us womenfolk, they were just taught to keep it to themselves I guess… and I’m guilty, sometimes I read but don’t leave a comment… that’s only because I can’t think of anything to write… Great Blog though! You crack me up!
That would just irritate the heck out of me! Him eating ice cream at midnight… I guess since I live with someone who does have weight issues, and can’t eat like that with out gaining weight I don’t have to deal with it. And because I don’t have to deal with it I don’t understand why you put up with it. I don’t think it’s fair at all. I’ve always told Billy that if he wants to eat like that then not to bring it in my house so I can’t see him eat it. Personally I think it’s disrespectful to make you suffer like that. He knows your views, and goals, but he still brings temptation into the house to (like you said) sabotage you. He should be more supportive of your weight loss journey, and one way to show that support is to not constantly try to sabotage you by bring food in the house that will make you fat and EAT IT RIGHT THERE IN FRONT OF YOU!
I’m just speaking my mind…. And sorry if I’ve offended you. But that is exactly what I’ve thought the numerous times that you’ve posted pictures and stories of him eating things that you know you can’t have right in front of you.
Is this just normal for women who have boyfriends and husbands to go through when they need to lose weight and their significant other has no problem losing weight?
My father is very skinny. He’s 5′6″ 120 pounds and wears a size 30 jeans. My mother as always been heavy. When they were married she weighed 180 pounds and in a size 16-18. She started dieting and losing weight after she had me, and she said that my dad through a hissy fit saying that he didn’t want her to be skinny. He said that he wants a summer time, winter time woman. Meaning he wants a woman that will shade him in the summer, and to keep him warm in the winter…. you should ask Rod if he wants a summer time, winter time woman. lol…
Jess, thanks for your input. Honestly my weight problem is mine and not his.
I just like to pic on him. This was just meant to be a fun blog.
Sorry, you thought it’s disrespectful but you know of my living situation, well if you are aware of my living situation you would know why things are the way they are.
By no means is he disrespectful. I have to respect that he needs to eat. We have mutual respect for each other.
lol I must say I agree with Jessica. Eventhough I can handle it when Bruce eats something ‘bad’, he hardly ever does that, he is also trying to gain weight but not by eating junk food but by eating regular meals with slightly bigger portions. Maybe tell Rod that eating all that icecream really isnt the right way to gain weight, it’ll just clog his arteries and compound as fat around his organs, which you cannot see but is even more dangerous than being obese.
men….. hmmmpppphhhh…….
“Guilty”. I haven’t been leaving a Post every time- theres just so many interesting blogs to read and not enough time! But will do so going forward. ; )
Nancy.. I am in the same boat so I get the Rod is not disrespectful. I never saw it as such from Tony. He eats when and what he wants and that is okay. it is my problem not his .. And it is good practice for self control. Plus abite here and there ain’t going to kill us..
I had to chuckle, icecream at midnight. I would have to leave the room.
I feel guilty if I read a blog post and leave without commenting! As a blogger who loves comments, I know how motivating a few words can be.
Yes, I can see the pictures! My sabotager brought potato chips home last night so I would have a snack. WTF…? After working out? Hellooo?
lol! I want to do this to my mom when she eats awful things…I think I should show her these pictures! lol
I feel bad reading a blog and not commenting either…but sometimes I don’t know what to say. I am not the best at socializing I think…
When I first started BS I rarely commented because I wasn’t sure if people would like me commenting…I figured they expected only their friends to read and comment.
But I am becoming more confident on BS, and maybe in real life…so I think that is good!
Rod’s so lucky!!!! I cant even smell something fatning without gaining 5 lbs! UGH Skinny people!!! like those skinny women who always complain that they need to lose a few pounds when you can see their rib cage!!!! UGH, UGH, UGH!!!!
You do make me laugh, Nancy. My boyfriend is also all about some ice cream in the middle of the night. What IS that?!
tell rodney that is f’in sick!!!!! that much ice cream would make me throw up!!!
im gonna read and not comment.
Shite, i just commented. and again. and again!!
LOVE YA LADY!!!!
CALL ME TONIGHT!
Oh hunny…I came home to my husband and son eating out of a big galln tub of icecream..how are we supposed to do it? haha
uh oh! I read it! I’m commiting!!! lol, your right I do love when people comment on my blogs, so I will make more of an effort on others!
whoops! Not commiting, lol comment comment
Try not to be too hard on us blog voyeurs; some of us are very shy about commenting.
Ok my first comment: Love Love Love your blogs.
How’d I do?
lol i agree skinny men do like bbw lol , love it so true .
I hate to say it, but that icecream looks good!!
Man - I need to find me a Skinny Chubby Chaser! That theory works - my man isn’t attracted to me …cuz he has enough fat of his own HAHAHA Great theory!
LOL… i read the title.. then saw the pics and i just burst out laughing… i haven’t even started reading the blog yet.. *time elapse* *grin* nice theory… uh oh.. i’m guilty of reading blogs and not always commenting, just because
usually someone has said what i want to say better than i possibly could or.. ehh… just don’t have much to say (i am quiet afterall, in real life and in cyberworld)
I can see the pic but not clearly, I didnt know what he was eating at first. I thought you finally snag a picture of him trying healthy food. LOL. And by the way I just read that guys blog, is it just me or wasnt he a cutie! Darn’t I may have just sexually harassed the creepy yoga guy. LOL.
Oh that man and his ice cream lol…
I’m going to have to go and read his blog now I planned on it, but I for sure am going to now!
MMMMMMMMM, fighting the ice cream urge too. Lol. those pics made me hungry!
oh em gee i love ice cream! i’m so jealous!
that is awful…if my boyfriend ate some dang ice cream that looked like that right in front of me…he would be going down!!!! i would be attacking!!!! omg!!!! did you resist it? did u eat some ice cream?
I want some of that ice cream
Oh sooooooo yummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmy….
Love reading your blogs 
I understand where you are coming from though so maybe in the future I can leave at least a little note 
Just have to find out how to do it while running, but I will come up with something 
LOL… Nancy you are funny
But I am guilty of reading some and not writing comments all the time. I just don’t know what to say sometimes that hasn’t been already said. And sometimes I read blogs while I am on the treadmill (if I need some motivation I read some blogs instead of watching my series) anyway, on the treadmill I can only read…typing doesn’t work so great… well.. not yet
Love ya
oi babe, i passed cambodia n waved.. but dunno which direction i waved to… :$ hehe,.. maybe not that precise but i did.. i have a feeling that ill gain weight at hum tho i constantly do exercise. im scared… >___
oi babe, i passed cambodia n waved.. but dunno which direction i waved to… :$ hehe,.. maybe not that precise but i did.. i have a feeling that ill gain weight at hum tho i constantly do exercise. im scared… >___
LOL You are too funny! I missed reading your blogs! Hubby used to be like that eating whatever he wants adn not gain a bit, but it is starting to catch up to him!
LOL
Girl that totally makes sense!!! LOL and Rodney boy i wish i couldn’t gain weight hahah