Marriage talks and 2 ceremonies
When I met Rodney last year I was at a turning point in my life. I met him, got the job here at my company and started going to church again. Like many people these days, I was on a dating site and just you know, doing my thing. But this “fish” caught my attention and he was a hottie. Our first date was to the movies, then Denny’s because it was the only place open at 1am. We were there until 6 am then went to Newport Beach, the same one the show the OC centered around and watched a sunrise together. It was very romantic and beautiful. Then that day no sleep for me because I went with my cousin to an Indian casino. It was 36 hours with no sleep. Don’t know how I did it.
But from that first date on we were hooked on each other. He’s everything I want; FINE, loving, my best friend, good lover, great father to his son, great son to his mom, and we have share some core values and beliefs. Two months into our relationship he told his friend he wanted to marry me; I’m like yah right. Every few months he tells me he knows I’m the one. We have our ups and downs but for the most part we are madly in love and so good for one another. Where I am weak he is strong and vice versa. We are a complete package and together we’re a strong team.
Well, last night it comes up again. He wants to get married and asking me when…have I decided when. I told him when he’s done with school and our financial situation is better and OH YEAH, LIKE MY RING! 
I know it’s going to happen sooner then later. I’m sure the ring is on its way because his mom is a firm Christian and would like to see us married rather then continue living together. I let you all know when it’s here.
This is my incentive to get toned up because I want to do the traditional Asian ceremony and Christian one.
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh YIPPEE!!! I’m so happy for you Nancy. Isn’t it the best when you find your soul mate!!!
You are already beautiful to me, but I understand wanting to be the best you can be.
So, I’ll be sitting on pins and needles, waiting for the big announcement!!!
Hugs
Jane
It is great Jane.
He makes me smile everyday, well, that is until he starts getting on me about losing weight.
WOOOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! YIPEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!! You better hold out for a VERY FINE ring, lol!
Girl, you know it. I said, get the ring and it’s on.
Yeah you better be posting a picture of that big ‘ole rock when you get it!
Hahaha - you know it Betsy! But he has to make some dough though. But seriously, the only reason why I want one is because my ex-husband the loser, didn’t get one for me. I refuse to get married again without it.
That is great news Nancy! You will be a BEAUTIFUL bride, I have no doubt!! Looking forward to the pictures.
Take care!
Nancy
I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU!! (sorry, I didn’t mean to shout, but I really am happy for you!).
It’s funny, you met Rodney the same way I met my husband, and your date went similar to ours. Our blind date lasted 6 hours. When I got home, I called to tell him what a great time I had. His phone was busy, because he was calling me to say the same thing. After a 6 hour blind date, we spent another 1.5 on the phone. He proposed 3 months after that. We were married a year & a half later. That blind date was 9 years ago next month. Isn’t it great when you meet Mr. Right?!
Hey Terry, thanks for asking.
I’m Cambodian, so a traditionial Khmer wedding is my dream wedding and it’s very much influenced by the Buddhist religion as well as the Royal class in my country (although I’m Christian). It’s usually a two day affair. There’s lots of food and friends and monks. People come over to prepare tradiitional food. They have several ceremonies:
1 is the engagment ceremony (2nd enagement)
2 is the blessing ceremoney, lots of sanskrit chants and blessing from the monk
3 is the hair cutting ceremony, to signify the children cutting ties with their parents
4 is the one I’m going to cry at, the umbrella ceremony, the bride holds an umbrella over her parents, to thank them for giving her life but also to say farewell. I always cry here
5 is the candle and blessing service from our friends and family and relatives
Then it’s the reception.
The bride wears about 7 traditional outfits. Very beautiful handcrafted clothes. Will be fun and lots of tears.
I’m so glad that everything is going so well for you! I think it’s awesome that you want to do a traditional wedding; the ceremonies sound very beautiful. I am Asian also (Chinese) and also have my heart set on doing a traditional ceremony if/when I get married!
Dang - gotta use spellcheck next time. Just in a rush to get back to work without boss lady knowing I’ve been here.
Thanks arisugawa, I love Chinese wedding and all the red and gold! Oh, and he’s Kenyan! So we may add that to the mix!
awesome, I can’t wait to feel like that about someone again!
Woo Hoo! My DH & I went to a wedding where the wife was Cambodian. The outfits were gorgeous and the food was amazing.
Congratulations Nancy! I know you too will be so happy together!
Yahoo!!! Congrats! I wish you the best!!
That will be really fun!
Wow! I am so happy for you! I have to say..cant wait to see the pics..your are going to be such a beautiful bride! The traditionial Khmer wedding sounds like such a beautiful thing!! I would probably cry at the umbrella ceremony too lol. Girl, just many blessings for you and your guy..it sounds like your so happy with him. Love Debbie
I’m glad you have found THE ONE! Love is an awesome thing. Congrats to you!
God is so amazing. You are blessed finally with a soulmate. You are deserving! I agree with you about having a ring. I rock 2.5 carats on my finger and I am worth every damn bit of the price tag. My hub had my ring in hand as he surprised me and proposed to me at our church in front of everyone!
My hub and I are going through a tough time right now. However, when it’s quiet, I often glance at my ring and remember the committment we made during our Christian ceremony before God and our family and friends. You’re right to do it the proper way, the way you want it to be. Both ceremonies will be absolutely wonderful and tasteful. You are a Diva and worth the time, money and preparation for your wedding day to be very, very special and memorable.
P.S. Will you please take Rodney to go see a movie called Fireproof? I kid you not, it’s a movie worth every dime. It’s a reminder about God’s purpose in marriage and loving one another in spite of the ups and downs. Please, go see it. It’s not a bible thumping movie but a movie that promotes marriage and love. You leave the theatre encouraged!