Ever have those days where u want to scream and not stop?
God, I hate my job right now…ok, I’m PMSing. But really, I hate working here sometimes. Mistake number one, I come to work for an established company of 30 years; of which one Shipping and Purchasing person, who is a total bi*&ch has been doing the same job function for said years. She is in her 60’s and almost ready for retirement.
THE PROBLEM????????
She helped screan for my position. So she knows what is on my resume; which means she knows I am capable of doing her job, plus my own with no problem. As I did that for the past 4 years for my other employer. I’ve been here over 8 months and I’ve had some good and bad days.
She is very old fashioned, set in her ways, miniumally computer literate and still uses a typewrite when 99.99% of everything she does can be done on a computer. She also has a very black and white outlook on life. I KNEW, KNEW on the second interview we were not going to mesh well. Just gut instinct. Also, she either likes you or she doesn’t. I’ve notice she does not like me and the Customer Service person.
I don’t care if she doesn’t like me because I have a job to do and that is my priority. But this one is out to get me. She acts like my deparment answers to hers; but in reality I answer to the Vice President only. All I care about is what my boss thinks of my and my performance.
But this lady, can’t even play the office Political games correctly. She has a problem with me but never confronts me with it. She gets the Production Manager to play her dirty game to get “answers” from me. I already told my boss, I’m not into office politics, I’m here to do my job well. But I prefer people who are upfront then those who are back stabbers or shall we say twofaced people. Don’t smile in my face, have “pretend conversations” with me then trash talk me behind my back. Be a woman and talk to me, TEACH ME, tell me what your concerns are…because if she doesn’t and all I get is hearsay, I can not learn and progress as an employee. I’m more then willing to learn and is receptive to constructive criticism. But don’t talk shi*&^t on me and just pretend everything is alright. I hate FAKE arse people with a passion. Be straightforward; there is no need for games.
Today she’s really after me but I know how to handle her….good God…I can not allow this woman to get the best of me.
OK, enough venting and yelling….sorry this is not weight related but I’m about to eat everything in the refridgerator if she keeps bothering me.

Yeah, right, it’s not weight related - HA! You needed to get it out or you will stuff it down with food. I would definitely have to confront her about it. I know you don’t like office politics but it’s either that or smack her. Which one would make you feel better? LOL!
You will feel better, if you talk to her.
Face to Face….get it out and you will feel better!!