We are working it….
We are doing 100% +100% better. The last couple of weeks were rough. We were both unhappy and fustrated. I was fustrated because he was constantly moody and always upset with me about this or that, nothing major but I knew something was off. He was fustrated because he simply missed me. He didn’t like waking up and I’m gone. Then after work I would return to the gym for longer sessions. All in all we were pretty unhappy.
But we’ve worked things out, we communicate effectively on a daily basis, always mindful of each other’s needs.
We spent the whole weekend together, swimming with my niece and nephews, watching movies and just being around each other. When he took off to see his son on Sunday I went to the gym and got in a bomb workout.
Then yesterday he took me to the gym….somehow, because he knew where I was at for a couple hours eases his mind, not that we don’t trust each other, but for him to see one of the other locations I go to helps calm him down. He worries a lot about me because my soon to be ex-husband still tries to contact me even though I make no attempt to see him. We live in the same city so my baby is always worried when I leave the house.
Last night after we got home we watched the Lakers sweep the Denver Nuggest - Yeah, Go Kobe Go Kobe….sorry we’re Laker Fans. Then we spent the evening laughing, giggling, and just being silly - something we have not done in a while.
He was understanding when I told him I was going to my 5am Power Sculpt class, but I am taking a rest day tomorrow. As he was a Sales Consultant for LA Fitness, he stresses the importance of rest days between workouts. Yes, I concede and have backed off working out so much.
