Will not allow one person to shut the rest out of my blog

UPDATED FROM HIS MOM AND THE COURT HEARING THIS MORNING:

They denied his change of venue, they denied his bail.   They are also giving his lawyer 1 1/2 weeks to show proof he’s not deportable.

The “crime” he was convicted happened in California.  If he was here under the 9th Circuit ruling he would have been released already.

Since they moved him to Texas against his will - his “crime” under the 5th circuit is aggravated therefore deportable.

I knew things would not go our way……………………. and now Just waiting for the call from him.

This is the outcome I was afraid of and sure enough - this battle is one we are losing!

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Rod goes in front of the INS judge in El Paso, Texas today with his lawyer.  I am a nervous wreck.

I am sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo  scared!!!!  Don’t know when I will have the news.

Best outcome:  Dismissal of deportation proceedings.

Worse outcome: They do nothing but delay it for another two weeks so the government can find evidence that he is deportable to Kenya.

We already know they are set to get a denial on the change of venue and bail - they are doing that on purpose - but hey miracles can happen right?

My world - is at a standstill right now.  My heart races, my palms are sweaty.

I chose to have only fruits and veggies as well as good hi fiber food around me right now.  I’m eating like mad.

Oranges, tangerines, grapefruits, pears, apples,bananas, dried prunes, seaweed, goji berries, granola, rolled oats………………… and coffee!!!!!!!

I can’t think straight - I just want some good news.  These past 1 1/2 months of dealing with him being in INS custody with NO bail have done nothing but eat at me and I’ve been eating.

SIGH so so nervous!

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Someone decided to send me a viscous comment about my life, my situation.  I thought about this - why am I going to shut out all my friends who do care for me?  My life, I deserve support just like every other blog on here.

My handicap mom & Avatar; No coupon for fresh produce? WTH? LOL

Well My mom, as you know is overweight/obese, has diabetes, cancer and numerous other health issues.  She lives with me but man, can she get on my nerves.  I think I avoid her a lot because I’m scared to  lose her even though we rarely get along.  :)

Lately all she does is go to casino and that gets on my last nerves because when she’s out of money she looks at me to flip the bill for grocery!

I’m thinking about taking her to see Avatar tonight in IMAX 3D.  I loved the movie and wouldn’t mine taking her.  She has not been to the theater since the old country and she doesn’t speak English or read in English.  And the wheelchair is another obstacle.  But I will make it work.

I thought about it, I won’t return to the Pilates or the Zumba instructor/classes I went to yesterday.  It was 2 hrs of OK fun but I have better instructors I can visit.

Today My plan is to go to kickboxing then Zumba.  Another 2 hours of fun.  I love my Friday classes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh I know coupons is not a new thing, but I spent a good portion of my lunch cutting them up.  I need to start saving serious money and every coupon counts.  Except - do you notice they never GIVE coupon for fresh fruits and veggies.  Now that would be a great buy!!!!!!!!!!

I always shop seasonally for my produce, but it would be nice to get a buy 5 lbs get 5 lbs free of fruits!!!

Anyhow, talking about my mom is a sore spot.  She is very sick and ill and I hate watching her die before my eyes.  But what can I do but spend the time I have with her now?

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Why I don’t take bullshi* from anyone; You can BLOCK unwanted buddies

Why I don’t take bullshi* from anyone:
I smell it coming a mile away.  It takes all but a few interactions on this site to know who’s real and who’s fake.  99% of the people here are real.  IF and KNOW you are coming at me sideways - I’ll let you know upfront and I don’t play games with you PERIOD.  I tell it like it is.  I’m not waiting around for you to “prove” anything to me.  Your actions, your words - how you interact with other people on the site via comments and posting in the forums tells me a lot about your character.

I’ve been asked more then once about blocking unwanted people from contacting them.  Easy.  Go to their profile, there is an option to block.  They won’t know you block them.

AND if you don’t want them to comment on your blog, unapprove one of their blog comments, copy the information including their email address, user name and IP address…..take that information to your dashboard, to discussion, and add their information to the section about blocking.

Easy as pie.  Feel free to be yourself here but also know, there are those that are not here for the same reasons we are.

Yesterday I got in my kickboxing class, walk and elliptical date but didn’t stay for Step.

Today I’m not sure what I want to do yet.  There is a BOSU class I may go to, or I just do my own weights session with the BOSU, and yoga.

IF you guys need more help with how to keep unwanted people from contacting you - holla at your girl.  ;)  ;)

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Why Seaweed, trace minerals? You thought it was just good on rolls LOL

I’ve been wanting to do this blog about trace minerals and seaweed for a long long time.

I think it’s one of our greatest food source, yet so little is mentioned here on buddyslim about it.  Well - I’m passing on info, articles that I think should get you in the mindset of thinking about that green stuff from the ocean.

My ankle is 100% better but I’m keeping my JIM date to kickboxing and Zumba tomorrow.  2 hrs of fun baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh - if you saw my buddy post - seriously - there are some weirdos on this site with more then one accounts.  I know exactly who they are too.    ;)

I eat toasted seaweed by the sheets and I put it in my miso soup.  GOOD STUFF!!!!

Seaweed - today’s busy person’s age-old best health pal

Edible seaweed, just like busy people, are hardworking marine plants that burst with multi-nutrients, no other plant life in the world can give! They feed and support every cell, tissue and organs of our bodies. Seaweed is the world’s most basic yet complete food! But don’t take my word for it, let’s learn from the thousands and thousands of experience of our great, grand ancestors…

Ancient super food is our ancestor’s secret to health and longevity

For thousands of years now, our forefathers fed on a diet of edible seaweed. They roamed the earth, shorelines and harvested what turned out to be the deepest secret to super health and long life.

From the Mediterranean coasts, the Nordic countries, Iceland, Alaska, down to the Pacific coast of Hawaii and the beaches of Okinawa, they fed mostly on game, seafood, and most specially, sea vegetables.

In fact, sea or ocean vegetables were so prized during those times that at one point, sea vegetable gardens were kept in Hawaii specifically for royalty! And the first ever-recorded proof that seaweed is a perfect food source dates back to 300 B.C. in China!

So why are these greens from the sea best for busy people and other achievers like you and me?

Not only are they bearers of complete nourishment but also are natural weight loss and anti-aging “agents” as well. Now, scientists have proved that, seaweed has a very positive effect on the human body.Gillian McKeith, author of Living Food for Health, says sea vegetables contain key minerals not found anywhere else in plant form. Ms. Gillian also mentions that the body more easily absorbs the protein found in ocean vegetables than meat protein, making it one of nature’s best anti-ageing foods on earth!

Well, just like us, these sea veggies are awesome multi-taskers! Their benefits have been time-tested. Are age-old.

And with history on its side, sea vegetables today are turning out to be increasingly popular due to its multiple health benefits.

In a nutshell (or in this case, a seashell), here are
29 things seaweed can do for us
from head to toe!

  1. Shiny and healthy hair.
    Amino acids, vitamins and minerals help strengthen hair strands and texture resulting in lustrous hair. Biotin, which belongs to the family of B vitamins, promotes healthier and shiny hair.
  2. Keeps the mind sharp.
    Significant amount of vitamins, protein, ionic minerals and trace minerals enhances your brain’s performance specifically Asparagine, which energizes the brain and also boosts the immune system, while Boron improves mental clarity as it assists in unclogging arteries.
  3. Makes skin clear, young looking.
    Rich in beta-carotene, Vitamin A, minerals and amino acids, sea veggies maintain collagen (a property necessary for smooth functioning of connective tissues) making skin supple, soft to touch. Laugh lines and wrinkles are reduced.
  4. Preserves good eyesight.
    Sea vegetables are the leading sources of natural carotenes like Vitamin A (beta carotene) and bioflavonoids – antioxidants that help clear up the cellular debris that accumulate in the eyes. Bioflavonoids for one, works with prolonging Vitamin C action in the eyes, which help prevent swelling and inflammation of ocular tissues. Vitamins A and C keep vision 20/20 and help prevent “dry eye” syndrome.
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  6. Improves gum health.
    Aside from calcium, sea vegetables are also rich in vitamin C, one of the most essential vitamins, which keeps the gums in the pink of health.
  7. Strengthens teeth, so flash that smile.
    26x the calcium of milk, seaweed strengthens teeth (and bones!). It also has Fluorine that fights tooth decay.
  8. Maintains healthy thyroid function.
    Abundant natural, organically-bond iodine extracts maintain healthy thyroid function, help prevent goiter.
  9. Helps ease colds and other respiratory problems.
    Seaweed’s strong anti-viral and anti-bacterial properties help prevent against colds, flu and other respiratory problems.
  10. Prevents allergies and infections.
    Overflowing with vitamin B, C, minerals and amino acids and anti-inflammatory properties, sea plants enhance resistance to allergies and other infection.
  11. Strengthens the immune system.
    Polynutrients in ocean vegetables help strengthen the immune system and keep the body resistant to illness and infection.
  12. Fights “roaming” free radicals. An army of antioxidants fights dangerous free radicals (cells that go wayward) for a super strong and protected immune system.
  13. Reduces cancer risks.
    Powerful antioxidants and anti-cancer properties help inhibit abnormal cell growth by a whopping 95%!
  14. Stunts tumor growth. Iodine and amino acids combine to significantly reduce breast and uterine fibroids; help prevent cysts from forming.
  15. Pumps up energy!
    Energy-boosting B vitamins, Vitamin C and minerals fight stress and fatigue so you stay active and alert.
  16. Enhances cell regeneration. Retards ageing!
    Replete with phytochemicals and anti-ageing properties, sea plants enhance cell regeneration and rejuvenation thus, delaying ageing.

  17. Lowers blood pressure and improves blood circulation.
    Sea vegetables are a very good source of magnesium, which has also been known to reduce high blood pressure; prevent stroke.
  18. Nurtures healthy heart vessels.
    Seaweed curbs the formation of blood clots to help prevent atherosclerosis or hardening of the heart vessels.
  19. Normalizes cholesterol levels. Effectively lowers blood cholesterol; helps stave off the onset of chronic diseases.
  20. Supports bone health and joint function.
    High magnesium content stimulates production of calcitonin (hormone), which helps increase calcium in the bones. Seaweed is also a terrific source of natural vitamin D, essential for calcium absorption, bone health and muscle function. Its Fluorine content improves bone density helping prevent osteoporosis (bone disease) in the process.
  21. Beautiful nails!
    Vitamins, amino acids, minerals and enzymes in seaweed keep nails strong and healthy.
  22. Fuels weight loss naturally.
    Virtually fat-free, essential fatty acids (EFAs), plant fiber and algin fuel weight loss and amazingly continue to do so even as you age!
  23. Aids digestion and waste movement.
    Polysaccharides (a form of soluble fiber) in sea greens, aid in digestion by soothing the digestive and intestinal tracts. No need for laxatives!
  24. Promotes liver health.
    Contains important vitamins, minerals, amino acids and enzymes, which help prevent fatty liver development, toxic build-up and other related diseases.
  25. Detoxifies heavy metals and pollutants.
    Minerals, amino acids and fiber work in unison to detoxify heavy metals and pollutants that enter the body through food and the air we breathe.
  26. Snuffs out cellulite! Antioxidants in seaweed increase your body’s fat-burning ability; help skin tissue and fat cells absorb minerals. These minerals then break the chemical bond that seals the fat cells and hasten their release out of the body (through the kidneys and bladder) halting cellulite build-up.
  27. Maintains the body’s natural equilibrium.
    Major and trace minerals, which are plentiful in ocean vegetables, keep life-sustaining activities in the body and maintain proper PH balance for optimal health.
  28. Supports kidney health.
    Minerals in seaweed act like electrolytes, which help kidneys regain optimum function. Then, too, its fiber content aids in kidney stone prevention.
  29. Helps maintain beautiful body skin.
    Amino acid, minerals and vitamin content of sea vegetables nourish the skin. Trace mineral Serine enhances skin beauty while Theonine improves skin tone.
  30. Prostate health.
    High in mineral content, seaweed helps maintain healthy prostate (gland) especially in middle-aged men.

Sea vegetables alkalize the body, making it less acidic. And the more alkaline the body, the younger it is!

Seaweed and You

Get started on seaweed health! Start adding sea greens into your daily fare. Here are the more common varieties you can find at your grocery store. Go ahead and try some them on our favorite recipes. Enjoy!

  • Nori has twice as much Vitamin C as oranges, packed with beta-carotene like carrots, rich in calcium for your bones, iodine and iron for thyroid, and are great in making sushi.
  • Arame is laden with macro minerals like magnesium, potassium, calcium, sodium and iodine.
  • Kelp is high in iodine, which must be present for proper glandular function and metabolism. It also contains phosphorus and calcium, as well as magnesium and potassium. Kelp is a source of vitamins A, B1, B2, C, D and E, plus amino acids. Because kelp is the saltiest of sea veggies, it makes a popular salt substitute. However, it’s been tested to be low in sodium.
  • Wakame is iron-rich and 10 times more calcium than a glass of milk!

HOME IS WHERE THE HEART IS; 1month of torture

It’s been 1 full month since our lives was turned upside down.  The longest 30 days of my life.  I can almost relive every moment from the past 30 days.  Sheer sheer torture.

It has taught me:

1.  I will always use food as a crutch.

2.  I still owe myself a great 5 yr weightloss journey blog!

3.  I am capable of unconditional love

4.  I am a good friend, a good lover, a good shoulder to cry on, a very happy soul mate

5.  I am strong

6.  Every single person has a self interest in almost every relationship

7.  I am no longer the negative, pessimist who sees the worse and prepares for the worse.  I have faith, in humanity, in destiny, in fate, in God.  Something I’ve lacked for the past 15 years.

8. I love to cry! :)  Well that hasn’t changed.

9. I’m learning that in life - shi* happens - it’s how you handle it that matters.

10. Change - only I can make changes in my life and fuc* it I’m taking responsibility for my actions

11.  Through all the tears, sleepless nights, worries, and uncertainty, I am a believer that things will work out.

The outcome may not always be what I want or expect.  What is important is knowing that everything happens for a reason, and to trust.

I told my baby, “HOME is where ever you are.”  That’s my home.  So right now I am safely at home.  :)

And you know, even through these hard days, Rod and I still manage to laugh together over the phone.  And we still smile and just happy.  :)  I live for those moments and as long as I have him, I will continue to have them no matter what curve balls life throws at us.

I’M IN CONTROL.  I CAN AND I WILL. WE CAN AND WE WILL! :)

A lot of it I will apply to my weightloss journey.  I decided this past month to prioritize - get my exercise way back on track then tackle food issues later.  It’s my game plan and it’s working even with all the set backs.

Never sit and say I can’t or I give up altogether - because when you give up - you stop winning.

My little *Black Dress* & Men Men Men Men Men

How is it possible for a man, specifically, my wonderful man to still irritate and get on my nerves even though he is in New Mexico and under detention?  Yes, it is possible for me to get snippy with Rodney and give it to him.  If he was home I would hurl something at him (JK)  Wildfire would but not Nancy! :)

I love him, but man, why can’t he just let the lawyer we got him to do the job?  Why must he try to be Mr. Sleuth?  WHY WHY WHY?  I know it’s a matter of life, but dang it!  I didn’t pay for a lawyer to do nothing.  And he already asked the lawyer the same question he’s asking me and trying to get me to get info to him?

Update - not much change on My baby’s case.  We are still waiting for Feb. 8th to come for his first day in front of the judge - still wanting bail/venue change to happen.  Keeping fingers crossed!!!!

Ok so yesterday, I wore a long sleeve but short black dress with my alligator stilletos to work.  No make-up, hair in bun, no eyebrows either and you know I pluck a lot of my eyebrows and draw it in my way! :)

I notice I had a flat on my car tire - the front one.  I took it to the gas station to air up myself.  Well - not one but 2 men - the garage workers were oh so kind and had time to both help me put air in my tire.

See - I would understand if I have make-up on and all did up - but come on - a dress?  All it took was a black dress to get their attention?

What is the saying Men, think with the “other” head.  LOL!!! Sure fits it!!!

I went back to them to fix my flat this morning but they closed down for a meeting.

Now I’m leaving work early to get it fixed elsewhere.  At moments like this I want to yell at Rod for putting himself in this predicament!!! I need him dang it!  He ALWAYS takes care of our car!!! :(

Anyhow,  Me thinks my right ankle is twisted.  Not sure from what because kickboxing was great last night.  I woke up with the pain.

I will let it rest today and maybe tomorrow because I want a great Friday 2 hours of fun with JIM.

Rod got all the pics and letters I sent him, ones with my tear drops and all.  He couldn’t talk about it because it was too emotional for him.  I’m glad he likes it.

I may try and get some weights in today, but hobbling around, I’d rather let my ankle heal up.

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh  I love these little sidetracks that reminds me how delicate our body is and appreciate it more.

*A small vent about our community* Buddyslim :(

What is going on here mama’s and our fellow guy buddies?

I love love love  love seeing new people here and welcoming the old back.  As expected, many people returned around the first which I was sooooooooooo happy to see!!! :)

Now we have a ton of new people.  Many are already gone.  :(

But I thought, you know, more people will stay longer then the first few months.

It’s nearing the end of January and the activity level has dropped here.  :(

I know there are a ton of new people.  One word of advice, reach out and get to know people.  Don’t assume people are going to reach out to you because we all do have lives outside of buddyslim.  But to be successful in this community, be as proactive as possible.

Join the weight loss challenges, fitness challenges.  :)  Have fun.  The more involved you are the more successful you will be.

I can say I am now a veteran of buddyslim and I would love to see more people added to our unofficial veteran list.  :)

This place is so different from other websites.  Yes, there are Buddyslim politics to contend with, drama as most places virtual and real have it, but over all, this place is a God send.

Take advantage of the people here and get to know them.  If you guys are lurking - come back!!!

I MISS YOU GUYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Support, even though virtual - is a power tool.  :)

Honestly, I know if it wasn’t for this place, my friends I would be back where I began with my journey.  This place is powerful - take advantage of it.

No one can motivate you to do this except for you but at least know we are here to cheer you on but if you stay quiet, don’t blog, don’t comment on other’s blog, don’t participate in challenges and don’t reach out to others, then you are not taking full advantage of this free weightloss site!  It’s free yet priceless!!

Plyometrics; Loving my Zumba class & Sweating through 2 T’s; 3 hrs back oh yes!

God, just realized I went many days without blogging.   Anyhow, I loved my Friday classes!  After the holidays and two week absent I made my way back and had a ball.

Not only did I sweat through my first tank top but my second tank top as well.  I love loved loved just everything about my kickboxing classes and Zumba.

Roxanne, one of the cats asked about plyometrices.  So when I did my Friday classes I added them into my own routine.

I did air jacks instead of standard jacks.  I took my side to side ski moves to a higher level.  I just do what made me feel good.

And of course I wore my belly scarf for Zumba which made it a million times better.  :)

Some people who stayed after Zumba was very impressed that me and another instructor stayed through both classes.  I just love to exercise so 2 hrs was like 10 minutes.

Can’t wait to do it again Monday.  I have weights and kickboxing and I want to do my step class as well.  Ready for my triple play, my 3 hours again.

I’ve been consistent with weights and push-ups I’m strong again.

I ate like a nutcase this weekend though and no workouts.  Just needed to take a tiny escape from my reality.

I MISS MISS MISS MY BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Nothing is the same without him.  But I’m hanging time and DEALING.

We went through 4 days of no talking because he didn’t get the money I sent him for calling cards.  The moment he did call me, I felt at peace.  Well, he got the money so he can call and he will call every day.  I’m a happy woman again.  :)

And today- eating 2000 calories before hitting the gym! :) OH YES!!! Probably be a 2500 calorie day before I’m done.

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